Nobody is acting out of the ordinary, just because you want to share intimate details of your home life with strangers online doesn’t mean everyone does.
When someone says they want to keep something private you should respect that. The fact that you have poured out huge volumes of personal information of your own volition is irrelevant.
At least Reb tells you why he won’t discuss something. When you get asked a difficult question you ignore it, go away, and when you come back you change the subject hoping everyone has forgotten.