Sat 13 Feb, 2021 09:15 pm
My girlfriend of 20 years has always had a problem (to be blunt) "spreading her legs" to let me in. Over the years this has caused our sexual activities to become... somewhat impersonal and less enjoyable. I always thought it was a problem with my size or pain of some kind. Recently however she assured me that the problem wasn't with me but that she had been victimized by her brother growing up. She has stated a willingness to "change this," or work through it. She wants us to have a better sex life as do I. My question then is this. What exactly can we do to work past this so that she can be more "open" to having me in that position?
Therapy, always.
Regardless of the length of your relationship or its quality, you need an impartial professional to handle this. It is above your pay grade.
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