Are you suggesting that sex in Western culture is not weird?
In 21st century America, male sexual desire is demonized and female sexual desire is ignored.
We obsess over marriage which is supposed to be for life, but usually ends in divorce. Our marriages are supposed to be monogamous, but there is no longer the expectation of sex in marriage (meaning chastity in marriage). We expect fidelity, but not surprisingly we often have extra-marital sex.
Being single is a weird balance of wanting sex, but being told not to seek it. Married or single, most people report being unfulfilled. We are in the middle of a sexual recession... people report having less sex now than in decades past.
We persist with gender roles in spite of our claim to be challenging them. Sex is still seen as something that men want and the women accept... as something done by a man to a woman.
American view on sexuality started with Puritanism. Sex was seen as transgressive... that it done by sinful men to take the innocence of helpless women. Modern feminism has the same basic message... in 300 years our view of sexuality hasn't changed in that respect.