fishin' wrote:FreeDuck wrote:Baldimo, I wonder if you understand that any money earned during a marriage is money that belongs to the marriage -- meaning both husband and wife. So it's not the husband's money to do with as he pleases.
This statement is absolute nonsense.
I disagree.
Quote:A spouse might be able to make a claim against the others wages
That was pretty much my point. How would she have grounds to make such a claim if what I say is such absolute nonsense?
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It's neither here nor there IMO though. The entire concept of a spouse being able to file for SS retirement base don a spouse's income should be eliminated whether any other changes in the plan come about or not.
I emphatically disagree with this statement. I wonder how much you value the unpaid work of keeping a house and raising children. Women are at a distinct financial disadvantage as it is, even if they return to work while their children are in their formative years. The time taken out for birth and the subsequent burden of being the mom (sick days, can't work late, etc...) add up to a woman with a career significanly behind that of her husband.
If what you advocate were to happen, there would be no guaranteed retirment for women who made the sacrifice to raise children. You are suggesting making it even more thankless than it already is. If you think that women don't spend enough time raising their childrent now, just wait until something like this were to happen. If we are each only worth what someone else is willing to pay us, then women (and men, btw) who choose to do the most important job there is are worth zilch.
But the point of my post, the part you snipped, was that these things would be settled in court or in a divorce settlement. Precisely because a personal account would be a marital asset that the spouse would have a claim to.