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My best friend is in love with a women at work but..........

 
 
Reply Sat 8 Aug, 2020 03:41 am
so my best friend just came out as gay and is now entering the dating scene. Well, she works with this women who theyve been really good friends for about 15 years. My best friend is in her late 30's while her friend is around 60. Her friend lost her bf a year ago to cancer but about 6 months afterwards, she started to kinda give off these " i wanna take our friendship further" vibes. So, my best friend put the notion out there that they hang out at her apartment, which they did. Well, things were going good and then my best friend asked the question " hey do u want to go to the bedroom?" . Well, the other girl kinda was wishy washy about it and then just kinda turned her down but in a " i kinda want to but kinda not want to" vibe. My question is that did my best friend do something wrong? Did she come on too fast? is she trying to get with a straight women who doesnt want a g/g thing or is it too soon after her bf death? or is it the " shes a older women so the idea of anything but straight sex is off putting" type of thinking?
 
jespah
 
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Reply Sat 8 Aug, 2020 05:02 am
@bisoccergirl22,
This is a problem for your friend, not you. Butt out.

And in the event that you think claiming you are asking for a friend but really asking for yourself is somehow necessary on an anonymous message board, widows of any sort (never mind that they weren't married; it doesn't matter here) tend to have a lot of issues and it takes time for them to work them through. 6 months is probably not long enough for that, particularly if the sexagenarian isn't in therapy.
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Teufel
 
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Reply Sat 8 Aug, 2020 05:30 am
@bisoccergirl22,
'Kinda' is not a word, stop typing as you speak FFS ..... it is irritating and makes you look like an utter moron.

Amazingly I find myself in agreement with @ jespah .... What has it to do with you precisely? If it is you then just say so.

At 60yr old that female is of my generation and whilst there is this 'vibe' (Jesus!) in the modern generations that 'Hey being gay is so cool' and indeed it seems many claim to be gay/bi even when they are not (my Dr daughter is married to her ophthalmologist wife and they have both seen this) ..... In my generation and in truth still today for many people, they find 'gay' to be bound for hell activity.

My first suggestion would be that your 'friend' finds someone her own age. Secondly, you need to take adult education classes and learn how to write English in a decent manner.
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mark noble
 
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Reply Sat 8 Aug, 2020 07:37 am
@bisoccergirl22,
Here's a recent, likely relative story.

Rob - A gay extrovert, who likes to lech at young (Legal-aged) blokes - Approached me (I am ok with Rob - He's not psychopathic, Nor a danger to anyone) about a 24yr-old-ish guy (Scott) who recently joined our workforce - Rob (A 'customer-employee', at one of the facilities, we manage) is a lustful piece of self-worthy, pointless 'Chaff'.

Robs' penis, and its whereabouts - Are All that Rob exists for...

(Scott is straight, Girlfriend... 2-yr-old kiddie, dog, whole happy ideal).

Rob liked Scotts' new, tight trousers, and likely orgasms, regularly, in his minds' eye...

Rob - Has BACKED THE FK OFF - Since I illuminated his Fkworthy perversions, in a discreetly, blunt ....... chitchat.


Have a lovely Day
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BillRM
 
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Reply Sat 8 Aug, 2020 09:15 am
@bisoccergirl22,
Just as a side note if possible it is always better to avoid relationships with some one you work with or have a business relationship with.

We however all human an break that rule from time to time.
mark noble
 
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Reply Sat 8 Aug, 2020 09:35 am
@BillRM,
NO 'WE' Don't.

You are speaking about how 'YOU' diverge from the 'RULE' (Whatever that means) and how 'YOU' 'BILLRM' assume the 'WE' factor (Assumed-universal-Ineptitude) applies to all - In order to Justify your own, pathetic, inability to conquer your OWN INFRACTIONS and perversive tendencies.

Have a lovely Day
BillRM
 
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Reply Sun 9 Aug, 2020 06:15 am
@mark noble,
mark noble wrote:

NO 'WE' Don't.

You are speaking about how 'YOU' diverge from the 'RULE' (Whatever that means) and how 'YOU' 'BILLRM' assume the 'WE' factor (Assumed-universal-Ineptitude) applies to all - In order to Justify your own, pathetic, inability to conquer your OWN INFRACTIONS and perversive tendencies.

Have a lovely Day


My my what a beautiful attack

Well in my case my pervasive tendencies was breaking my own rule by falling in love with a woman who was and is renting a condo of mine from me.

Fought my feelings for a few years before giving in to myself and letting her know my feelings.

It not a good idea to have a personal relationship along with any kind or manner of a business relationship but it does happen from time to time.

Just ask Bill Gate where he got his current and so far only wife. My bet is Microsoft lawyers was very nerves during his courtship with his now wife.

mark noble
 
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Reply Mon 10 Aug, 2020 08:25 am
@BillRM,
By 'perversion', Bill - I mean 'behaving contrary to Ones' accepted moral aptitude.
Not calling you a 'pervert' (Lewd-slang).

Have a lovely day
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