doing it like a man

Yep...but those women you have to 'pay' for. :wink:

darn..thought i cud experiment a little..but then again i wudn't wanna be emotionally attached..thanks for the reply!

A true answer that is no answer:

Some women can. Some women can't.

It's possible, but in general I think women definitely are more prone to become emotionally attached.

I've found having sexual relations with "special people" solves this, because they just think they're on the pony ride at the town fair. Plus they don't know how to use a phone, so I don't have to worry about getting calls.

You're probably better off hearing what the women think...wait, even they can't explain their own emotions most the time, so maybe not.

It's possible to pull it off. I've had a sex only relationship in the past. But, it only lasted 6 months (twice with the same guy). Well, it got a little complicated because of my emotions, but it was damned near perfect.

Some can't.
Some can.
Some prefer it that way, and wish men weren't so clingy.

I reckon someone gets clingy sooner or later. I know of women who are sex only and don't bother them for anyting else and then there are others whose emotions lead them to wanting to have sex.

It seems the more the person is really really right the harder it is to do just sex only. That goes or guy or gal, IMHO.

Littlek, you just said it's possible to pull off, then it got complicated because your emotions. So....??

I don't know, I had one girl tell me she wanted to have sex with me over and over. I told her if it happened that's all it would be. At first she said "yea, me too," then I reinforced it and she's like "well, why not?" So that didn't happen.

Then when I was 23 I was sleeping with a stewardess 13 years older than me, that I'd see occassionally when she flew in. And she got PISSED and stopped talking to me when I casually told her I was going out with an ex-girlfriend one night. At one point wanted to go away for a weekend with me...WTF??? We even talked about how the age difference was ridiculous and dating wasn't an option when it started. She still got at least somewhat emotionally attached.

Chicks....tapped...all of 'em. Just to different degrees.

Agreed, Blaise. I think I could have the sex only relationship, such as it was, with B because we weren't right for eachother (in any way except chemically).

Slappy, if I can come close to it, there are women out there who can do it.

I hope you're not inferring that you're giving up trying. I humbly offer myself up as a sex only crash test dummy.

Thanks, Blaise, I know I can always count on you.

No worries.

Hey, uh, shouldn't you get that rash cleared up first???

Blaise....?

:wink: well, i did have the sex and yeah, i guess i am not one of those woman who can NOT feel any emotions..but if there's a way to stop all the emotions from coming, it wud be gud woudn't it?

and men really don't feel anything? i kinda find it amazing .. mebbe too much romance novels on my part..

Wani - I've wished it were good to not make immediate attachments, but I can only go so far. And, I dunno if it's a good thing, in the end.

The rash has made for some stirring post sex repartee... it stays.

Wani3, I wouldn't say men don't feel anything, it might take them a bit longer but we be just as clingy as anyone.

But, for men, it's not likely to happen over sex. It's more likely to happen later, after a sexual relationship has grown on them.