@blueveinedthrobber,
I won't comment on you and the Squin except to recite what a wise man once said:
Who knows what really goes on in a marriage?
Quote:I have no desire for love or companionship
Everybody desires L & C but I think both of us don't
need L & C to validate our lives.
I wish I had realized this in my 20's. Would have saved me a lot of angst.