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Fri 3 Jan, 2020 12:18 am
So I hooked up with this guy and we only kissed for a few minutes and he touched my boob kissed it and everything then he wanted to start having sex. So he saw that I wasn’t really wet yet so he fingered me a bit and even that was a bit uncomfortable and I’m usually with other guys really wet from foreplay and then we started having sex and it was good but when he tried to put his whole length in it would kind of feel uncomfortable like I could feel discomfort in my bladder especially in positions that would let him go real deep in me. So my question is is this discomfort from a lack of foreplay or is it something else and any advice to better it in the future
@Mimiroar,
Sounds like he's really inexperienced or he doesn't care how his partner feels. Don't waste your time with a stingy lover.
@glitterbag,
It happens to my wife as well. Sometimes sex is uncomfortable for me too. It’s not a big deal, and needless to say, I don’t think it should necessarily be ground for separation (we’ve been together for 27 years).
@Mimiroar,
You used the term "hooked up". Does this imply a short-term relationship? If that is the case then it might be easy to let this relationship go.
Sex should be pleasurable for both partners. Communication in a long term relationship helps with that... you can tell your partner exactly what you need and want. I think awkward sex is part of the deal with short term relationships.
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