Thu 28 Nov, 2019 04:25 pm
Basically, sex isn't satisfying. I'm male and I don't struggle physically, but mentally I'm just waiting to be finished. I'm attracted to women, I occasionally watch porn, but when I've had sex it just felt like a chore. I tried sleeping with a man and sex felt the same, just with less overall interest. I'm into a lot of kinky stuff, and have tried some of it, but it still feels the same. I am attracted to people, I am excited by sexual things, but I just feel indifferent when actually doing them. Does anyone know what's going on with me, or have any advice?
Don't let porn or Hollywood skew your perception of what sex is. If you are not interested in the actual act find what you are interested in and pursue it. Being male it is a little different but doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. However, if you feel the same about all things and nothing really brings you joy you should see somebody. That would sounds like depression. I really only enjoy the last few seconds of sex, the rest is like standing in line at a roller coaster, just gotta do it.