Craven de Kere wrote:Lusatian wrote:You all may not believe it, but almost every soldier I know believes that liberalism, both extreme or passive aggressive is fundamentally against almost everything we do.
I believe it. Both sides seem to think the other is responsible for all evil.
Well, I certainly do not believe that any "side" is responsible for all evil - at least only on my very bad days - (and I don't "get" this liberal/conservative thing in the USA very fully, either) but I do observe the (doubtless partly unconscious, generally) selecting out of the other side's most extreme position and running with that as a sort of straw person to hate and revile - and also, in the language of our very thinking, distorting the "reality" of a different position.
An example right here (but I note it everywhere, on both "sides") is your comment, Lusation, that "liberalism, both extreme or passive aggressive is fundamentally against almost everything we do."
By speaking of liberalism as either "extreme" or passive aggressive" you have neatly denied, in your very THINKING - (since our language determines, in large part, what it is even possible to think about) - the possiblity of "liberals" having anything reasonable or meaningful to say or offer, since the only possible positions you give them are negative. You have made them an enemy and only an enemy.
I am very sorry that this way of thinking seems so prevalent on the part of so many - I assume it is people who are perpetrators of a more extreme form of either/or -black/white thinking who have so distressed young people going off into danger by projecting their distresses and hostilities onto them. I can well understand why this is such an emotional thing. I also believe it is a very small number of your "enemy" Lusatian who have been so extreme and insensitive in their demonstrations of their beliefs - or indeed who are opposed to almost everything you do.
People's attitudes to the military are a complex and difficult thing, I think, often. For example, on the one hand to many it represents killing and horror - on the other, it represents safety and security. I hate to speak psychologically, but I think it is not too hard to imagine that some of the things it represents are things we find hard to deal with in ourselves, and hence project our discomfort outwards - onto people such as yourself.
I think it is also reasonable to acknowledge that it is by no means unknown for militaries to be tasked to do - or to do themselves - things that are morally repugnant to most of us. Babies and children and other civilians in Irag WILL be killed - or subjected to pain and suffering - I do not think this is deniable. It is the nature of war. Babies and children and others suffer in a lot of other circumstances, too - like in ordinary life on a goodly part of our planet.
Many do not believe that, on this occasion, the military IS being used to defend our soft, weak, ungrateful bodies - but that it is being used to farther less noble aims.
I know that your beliefs are different from mine - and I respect yours and wish you only the best, as I have said before.
Sadly, I have met more than my fair share of baby-killers - they are sad, damaged creatures - I know you are not such - and I hope that your job does not force you to do such a thing long-distance and without intent.
Sorry - this turned into some sort of an old testament or something!