someone had to step up and that's a good way to become royalty to a queen
Thank you for your service, Husker. It will serve you well.
Speaking personally I have always found those large,white,soft pendulous breasts with the intricate patterns of fine blue veins,like road maps,quite exciting.It is probably due to my Mama failing to supervise my wet-nurse properly.
that's a very likely explanation, Spendius. Wet nurses can be subversive.
I..adore..seeing personality types that make me so assured of how I never want to behave.
If there is a possibility and opportunity it is good to correct these wrong doings or personnality defects.But first question is am I sure I master this myself? :wink:
I wouldn't consider it a defect, merely traits that I never want to possess. I do not enjoy treating men as inferior f*ck-toys, nor do I enjoy acting as if I have absolutely no intellect, and thus must result to using sexuality to attract someone. I see it daily at school, in public, here obviously. It sickens me that men are attracted to it, but what can I do?
I thankfully have someone that has enough experience with falling for those types of women that he no longer does and can see me for my inner self, not just my tits. I find that much more rewarding; to be on a spiritual, emotional and physical journey together rather than just "giggling" and shaking my bosom. What reward is there in that?
Lola, please feel free to answer that question. I do not mean to insult you, but to explain my feelings. What reward do you get from acting the way you have on this thread? Your posts show no intellect, but rather promotion of body parts that nearly (excluding deformities/amputations - have to be careful) every woman has? Do you feel power? Do you feel as if these men actually want you for something other than your body?
I don't understand. There must be a memo that I did not receive, because it seems to be the new fad.
I'm just having fun, Santuary. There are many desirable personality traits. One on the top of my list is the ability to relax and have fun without the need to put others down. We all have our own way. I'm glad you enjoy yours. Try to step back and relax the judgement. People are not always as they appear on the surface. I find it's better to study a person a bit before making a judgement. Snap assessments of the motivations of others are rarely useful. A rule bound life is an avoidable tragedy. Now I must get back to work.
Well luvvie-there's more reward than there is being a po-faced Sunday bloody school teacher with one of those early fifties snare techniques which only catch the lame and halt and that's for sure.
It's true Spendi, but we all have our own way and for our own idiosyncratic reasons......your wet nurse, for instance.
Let me clear that up also - Lola and I know - I'm just a being really totally silly.
it's good for the spirit, Husker, but silly isn't the word I'd use. Playful, that's what I call it.
yes - I like that better - Playful it is!
I wasn't making snap-assessment..you were behaving exactly as I pointed out. There was no 'judgement' about it. Playful, silly, slutty, obnoxious, jokingly, what ever you want to call it, my opinion remains the same.
However, I have not read any of your other posts and so I will gladly admit that I do not know you. This does not upset me.
As for being "po-faced", I'd much rather that than prancing around in promiscuity. I am one of the most laid-back and free-spirited people I know. This doesn't mean I enjoy flirting around. I don't. But that's me. I wasn't condemning you, merely questioning what the gain of it was. Being laid-back and easy-going makes no sense to me. I am that without behaving like so.
the gain is the fun of it........and thank you for sharing.
oh and of all the things I am, I've never claimed to be other than a slut..........deep down, that is.
Fair enough.I didn't start that off.You shouldn't have to defend yourself.You're good fun.Why should somebody who is good fun and can cut the ice with the boys have to defend herself.
Hey Sancta-this is a philosophy thread.We explore difficult ideas in a light hearted easy going manner.We don't holier-than-thou it on here.You want the I Should Be A Saint thread.There's enough of them.
On this planet-Earth- we are all women,man are just more masculine females than woman.
You are speaking for yourself shylec aren't you.Don't count on me for company with that mush.