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Sun 15 Sep, 2019 03:53 am
So I have this crush a couple of months but I don't think that he knows I exist. We go to the same school but at different classes. He usually hangs out with his cousin and her friends and with two of them I'm acquaintance. One day he was chatting with two girls of my group of friends and I got jealous and annoyed and went there plus although they knew that I liked him they didn't make an effort to indroduce us to each other. Anyways I have no idea of how to approach him and at least become friends.
@BrooklynBabyy,
Go into their group again and this time don't wait for an introduction. Some people are clueless when it comes to such things.
So say, "Hi, I'm Megan (or whatever your name is). I don't think we've met before "
Simple: dismiss the 'crush' feelings and then wait to see if your life-paths intersect without you doing anything to effectuate it happening.
If you're meant to meet, you will one way or the other. If you aren't, then you won't and your 'crush' feelings will become a memory of an emotional glitch that you experienced in the past that temporarily deterred you from more relevant pursuits and developments.
@jespah,
jespah wrote:
Go into their group again and this time don't wait for an introduction. Some people are clueless when it comes to such things.
So say, "Hi, I'm Megan (or whatever your name is). I don't think we've met before "
Sometimes the simplest most direct route is the best - see above.
@Linkat,
ufff..
Many adults lack the awareness to introduce someone to the others in the group.
I learned long ago if the opportunity window of introduction by the other person passes, I just jump in and introduce myself.
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