Actually.... my current "paramour" wants to be controlled (although we don't use the word "paramour"). It works for both of us, it is consensual. I don't care if you approve or not of this type of relationship. And that is the point. In these sex threads I am being forced into the position of feminist.
In this thread, Lisa (who clearly identifies as a woman) is expressing a desire to "sext". Sexting involves sharing sexual fantasies (in this case receiving oral sex at work) with a partner. The reaction from you an Glitterbag is first ridicule, and then accusing Lisa of being a "teenage boy".
The assumptions here are...
1) Women shouldn't engage in non-conventional sexual behavior, and they certainly shouldn't express desire for it.
2) Teenaged boys are deplorable.
3) Since a woman would never express a sexual fantasy, anyone who does so much be a "teenaged boy".
I don't see what Lisa did wrong to deserve this ridiculous. She is expressing a fairly normal fantasy as part of a clearly consensual relationship.
Yet, you and Glitterbag are slut-shaming her.