Should a man ask a woman he's having sex with to join a sex group?

He thinks you're skanky and will blindly spread 'em whenever he wants. You've shown on multiple posts how that's true. Either join or not. But ffs, stop thinking he cares about you in any way.

Ok whenever he want's what does that have to do with putting me on a group with others ???

So you can show other people just how far you will degrade yourself for him.

But show who by me doing what? I didn't accept so what would he get out of
me how could I degrade myself for him? i'm just trying to understand.
I had actually even asked another guy I used to deal with if he would not particular me but would he request a female he sleeps with on same page he said sure why not

Are you asking why he chose a Facebook page rather than the literally THOUSANDS of free and paid porn sites?

Because he wants to show your friends, family, employer, potential employers, scam artists and deviant sexual predators exactly what he thinks of you.

don't get what he'd get out of that

That's not the question you need to be asking.

The question is...

What do YOU get out of this?

well I didn't accept. you claim it's to show my employer and etc that is going to the extreme if he's doing it for that reason he could just post stuff on my page.
what you said made no sense so how would they even know. on his page it doesn't even show he's a member. you just want to attack because I asked the question without knowing how to answer.

I'm not attacking you.

I showed you he's not a friend and there's absolutely no benefit for you to stay with a man who clearly mimics this amount of contempt for you.

And yes, pages you like & follow do show up on your Likes feature and feed. It would behoove you to find your porn habit somewhere less conspicuous than Facebook.

Not that I am accepting but not if your info is private as I said he joined it and it's not even on his personal info you can't even tell when you go to his info that hes a part of that group and he did joined because when i got noticed it showed me he joined and invited me so no it does not and again . why go through that for people he don't even know to show i'm on it. that's all i am saying. so he's not a friend why would he let me stay at his house and go through the trouble of going to stores to make sure I have something to eat and getting candles and buying me flowers for what?
we lived in same apt complex many yrs ago so how aren't we friends we were neighbors it's just that we are not in a relationship.
we not friends so you let someone not your friend spend the night at your house and have them around your teenagers at that time they were now all grown. you would take that person out to eat with them that's not a friend?

I did more with him then i did with female friends.

You're clearly not happy. You've started numerous threads about him asking if such behaviour is OK. When people say no you get upset then start making excuses for him.

You are his go to shag and he likes showing off that fact to his mates. He's not going to change, so either you put up with it or drop the fwb malarkey.

Complaining to us on A2K and then arguing with those trying to help before you go back to playing the doormat isn't helping anyone, least of all yourself.

What do you mean showing off to his mates? no i am not but I am just explaining to you what is going on. Do you mean because he tells me to call and don't answer? i'm just trying to understand

Why are you so adamant proving to me he's a friend? Post after post you've shown what a disrespectful and nasty person he is to you. And now you want to claim he's an angel?

Make up your mind already.

Angel I never indicated that he is an Angel so you're saying he treats me like crap but willing to hang out with me. but you don't answer my question how is he showing off

On another thread you said he got you to tell someone over the phone that you were having sex with him.

Oh ok yes, he had his cousin's car because his was in the shop. She was calling for him to pick her up. He had her on speaker when we were together. she gave the address where she was at he put it on maps. Anyway she didn't even really give him a chance she called back like in five mins and he was annoyed and said dang i'm in the middle of something.

later on like not even 2 hours he called me had me on speaker and she was in background . i was at a supermarket . he says um lisa wasn't we f'n.. i said um huh. i guess the cousin thought he was lying because she wanted her car back. that's what that was about

You're making excuses. He was showing off that there's a woman he can get shags off of at the drop of a hat.

That's what that's about.

Either you put up with this behaviour or you move on.

Yes, I get that's what it was about. What I don't get is why an adult would have to tell anybody what private business he was engaged in. And even more to the point, why you allowed him to make you look like a complete idiot.

Wow I really thought it was because she really wanted her car back and I thought he was telling her that to prove what he was doing reason why he still had her car. Cause in the background she said to me oh ok while laughing I thought he was lying.
I had to cb and add . why did he accuse me of sleeping with someone else then when he didn't hear from me for a week? He asked me if I gave it up and I didn't answer then said um you didn't answer my question like 3x
he said are you sleeping or have sex with someone