Never Marry a REALLY Hot Men?

I'm going to bed. See you in the AM. Maybe then extra and I can take up where we left off? Or maybe not. But what happened to never marrying a really hot men/man? I still say, if he's not completely aware of his hotness, you've got a sweet thing.

I know - my suburb alone is over 60% asian!!!

bye everyone. I'm not going to bed, more of to study.

Why extra? Do you feel uncomfortable?

I'm not! I understand perfectly what pragmatic was
trying to tell us, and I do understand eoe as well. She is
sensitive to this issue because she probably was/is
subjected to it more frequently.

Only when both parties understand each other, can progress
be made.

Good night eoe and good studying to pragmatic.

Amen.
Goodnight!

g'nite

damn, everyone's going to bed?

Not everyone littlek

I thought I'd lost this thread - it seemed to have disappeared for a while.

Going back to the initial question: What would you
prefer littlek, a hot guy to have fun with or someone
more conservative but boring?

I've been with both types and am looking for a blend, I guess. Actually, I'm not interested in boring and conservative.

Unfortunately, there hardly is a blend of both types,
they're either one or the other <sigh>

But I agree, boring and conservative will be our senior citizen
home one day, no need to anticipate it now

This is a cop-out, pure and simple. Pragmatic stated from the outset that her objections were culturally based. Perhaps if, as a person of color, you were to settle down, and not operate with a hair-trigger reaction to anything you can remotely characterize as racially based, this sort of thing wouldn't happen.

Oh come on! There must be a middle ground!

C.J.

Which meaning of "boring" are you employing above?

The subjective kind of meaning spendius. What's boring
to me might be highly entertaining to you.

C.J.

That's the sort of thing any woman who has been married for a while might be expected to say.

One of the advantages of not being married for a lady,it has seemed to me,is that she is able to insist on reciprocal entertainment in want of which nobody gets any.Obviously a single lady,particularly one who has been married and thus can be assumed to know the ropes,might not be able to find the sort of entertainment she requires and could well feel that she would be better off being bored and not entertained than not being bored and not being entertained either.There are possibly other ways to exploit the former situation and my hypothetical lady could well come to think that marriage is not too bad really.Things are different in the case of the lady who does find entertainment.

How that is done,I feel,is for the lady to make herself more responsive to entertainment and learn to recognise it in surprising and un-usual places.A too restricted response in this regard does narrow the potentialities and if that is overcome my lady might find that she has a wider field to pick her buttercups in.

spendius,

I expected an answer like this from you. I am perfectly
able and capable of entertaining myself, nevertheless,
I do find certain men boring based on my compatibility
factors.

What you're trying to insinuate is that it is the woman's fault
and she needs to make herself more responsive to the
enjoyments in life. Granted, secondarily so, but that wasn't
my point.

Certain men are just boring, like self centered intellectuals whose
emotional shortcomings are all to prevalent, are a total bore to me.
They love the audience, they crave the attention, yet have very little compassion or interest in others. Their primary purpose is
to distinguish themselves, and only themselves.

I'm not looking for a buttercup, by the way

I agree.

Switch "women" for "men" and I still agree.