Linkat, that's why they say: Love is blind!
jpin, yes she deserves to know, but not from the mistress.
Chances are, the wife has a hunch and just doesn't want
to know or deal with it. Who would give me (speaking here
as the infamous mistress

) the right to interfer?
Just because I was stupid enough to fall for married guy,
doesn't give me the right to destroy another woman's life,
or whatever is left thereof.