Mr. Shirakawasuko said:
Quote: Even aidan, who thought[b] they[/b] could figure some of them out and that it was just a cultural barrier, missed a number of them.
(emphasis mine)
Does that mean you'd buy all of us a beer? Aidan (with an 'a') is only one person - that's me - my real name is Rebecca and I'm one integrated personality (no issue with multiples) so no reason to call me a 'they'.
Jaysus - all this intelligence and scientific knowledge and you still can't figure out subject/pronoun agreement.
But anyway - what part of the country are you in? I'm in NY - I'll be traveling down to NC at the end of the month and then around to see friends before I leave the country- so if you're anywhere on the way to somewhere I'm going anyway - I'd be delighted to take you up on your invitation. Of course, you'd also have to buy my daughter a root beer - she'll be with me - I could spring for that though.
I think you're right about the dynamic of being more sensitive and aware about differences when you're in a strange environment. But I don't think that explains the phenomena I'm trying to express.
I think there is a measureable difference in how Brits and Americans respond to and even report information. It's apparent when you read news in print - when you watch it on tv- when you listen to the radio, etc. and then make comparisons.
It's kind of too long and drawn out and off-topic to go into here - but if we ever met for a beer - I might try to explain it to you.
CI- Some of my favorite people are people who have learning disabilities too...no pretense...so refreshingly genuine.
When I was in England I did volunteer work with this agency that provided social opportunities for adults with learning disabilities and one young woman became one of my very best friends while I was there. Her name was Jenny - we'd go out to the library, stationary store, whatever and then for a cup of tea. One day we're sitting in this little tea room about the size of my dining room full of people and she says to me,
'Becky - never get arrested when you're having your monthly.' (Sorry to be indelicate - but hey this is a science forum and we're talking about biology and stuff right?).
Well all the people in earshot kind of lifted up their heads, looked over and then resumed minding their own business.
So I responded, quietly, hoping she'd take my cue and lower her voice - I said, 'I think I can manage that Jenny...have you been arrested?'
I put my finger to my lips to indicate she should whisper. She says, 'Many, many times....I have an issue with anger. I get in a lot of fights.'
Talk about fascinating..I'd end up hanging on her every word. What lessons in life she could give - and I'd guess her measureable IQ to be about 70- somewhere on the border between trainable and educable.
Anyway - I'm entirely in agreement with you about the role of intelligence in life - it's certainly not the be-all and end-all.
In fact sometimes I think it can serve to be somewhat of an evolutionary disadvantage rather than an advantage.
Shira:
I never said I don't believe in evolution of the species. I most certainly do...so I'm not quite sure what you're referring to in terms of me being guilty of employing any type of fallacy in the reasoning in my posts.