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							Sun 20 Jan, 2019 08:10 am
						
						
					
					
					
						As my guy friend and I were talking, his voice gradually became more quiet and slower. While he was talking slowly, it was like he was taking these pauses in between a few words within each sentence. Why was he doing that?
					
				 
				
						
														
					
													@kindpiano,
												were you having a heated discussion. I tend to do that when I get a bit angry
											
 
					
				 
																									
						
														
					
													@farmerman,
												It was more of an intimate discussion.
											
 
					
				 
																									
						
														
					
													@kindpiano,
												There is really no way to know. Sometimes I talk slower when the conversation gets emotional, it takes me a little time to translate emotions into words especially if I am feeling vulnerable... I want to make sure that I express myself carefully.
Why don't you ask him?
											
 
					
				 
																									
						
														
					
												Is this the same co-worker you have posted about before? 
Depends on what he said. Was it:
“Mess up this report one more time and we’ll need to talk about your job”
Or did he say:
“You can choose the restaurant.”
											
					
				 
																									
						
														
					
													@kindpiano,
												have you ever considered asking the people involved?
  
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													@kindpiano,
												Probably means nothing at all.  Or a myriad of other things.  Maybe it means he is tired of talking to you.  Maybe he is bored.  Or maybe he was having a small stroke.  Who knows?  Why you have to look for hidden meanings behind everything is beyond me.