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Sexual frustration

 
 
Sun 2 Dec, 2018 01:02 am
I am a viral man in my late 50s. My wife has no interest in sex and if she does it is very rare. I feel that if she truly cared about me she would at least allow me sex 2 or 3 times a month. We have sex about 6 times a year. I'm not a selfish lover and enjoy pleasing a woman. I just don't know what to do at this point. It's getting to the point where I don't even want her, not a good place to be. Any advise from you women out there?
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PUNKEY
 
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Sun 2 Dec, 2018 07:20 am
Do you know why your wife has low sex drive?
Tired?
Job and housework overload?
Illness?
Kids taking up a lot of time?
Financial stress?
Was there an incident when this happened (death, move, job change)?
Is she angry/ resentful of you?
Past circumstances where she lost trust in you?

If you are looking for permission to have an affair, that’s not going to come from me. You need to talk more about her.
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jespah
 
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Sun 2 Dec, 2018 09:04 am
@Vtwinrider,
Have a conversation. Not in bed. No distractions. TV off. Phones out of reach.

- Is everything okay?
- Do you feel okay physically?
- Am I pulling my weight around the house?
- Are you tired?

And listen to what she has to say.
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DannyMickel
 
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Fri 12 Apr, 2019 06:10 am
@Vtwinrider,
@Vtwinrider...At this age, I think you should give more focus on care her. However, sex is an important part of life but I think while you give more care to your wife maybe she shows some interest in sex with their desire...Give her more time to know their feeling and problems as well maybe you get to know why she was not interested in sex...

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Dollswish
 
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Sun 21 Apr, 2019 10:30 pm
@Vtwinrider,
Hi, in this case, getting to know your wife a little better, care more about her; to learn her needs, thoughts, and how she care about the family and you. And then join with her, be with her to undertake all, make she feel you. Everything will become nature, let alone sex.
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