Odd man out

You've provided the minimal amount of situational information yet you phrase your questions in a manner which denotes moral uncertainty. The short answer is that you could be both A and B, neither, or part one or the other.

Listen to the voice in your head. Yes, you could be setting yourself up for disappointment. Prepare yourself. Accept some risk or call the whole thing off. How will it look six months from now?

Do you enjoy creating separate plausible scenarios to see if we'll respond differently to questions about cheating if you change the genders and sexualities?

No. As I said, I posted in the wrong forumn initially and there's no way to delete the other post. Don't be so catty.