I think you mean sympathy Brandon not to split hairs. I've never been through this so I cannot have empathy.
Have you been involved personally in a fifteen year circus surrounding a loved one in a vegetative state where you were in a fight with relatives and the media, lawyers, politicians and every Tom Dick and Brandon with an opinion thought they could decide better than you how to conduct your personal affairs? If so, you can empathize. Otherwise you are welcome to sympathize.
You are even welcome to judge me if you like. My self esteem is not dependent on the outcome of your judgement.