@ohuhokay,
My wife loves fingers and small toys, yes she orgasms very intensely with anal+vaginal, But is my dick rammed in her ass better than vaginal. I don’t think so. Yes it’s stimulating, yes it can be enjoyable, do I think just shoving it in is going to get you off better? Probable not, seems like upping the size of toys gradually works the best. I wouldn’t say the orgasm is more intense, but that it’s like a shortcut, which consistently ensures that it be intense.