What to do about LTR boyfriend that repeatedly acts emotional and irrational?I’d like to accept him as he is but this type of behavior really irks me and I’ve already broken up with him before because of it. We recently got back together after 7 months apart and things were good for a month but then BOOM, here he goes again. He says that’s him and he can’t help it. I’ve told him he might need some therapy but that falls of deaf ears. My first instinct is to breakup, but there’s a part of thinking of staying because of his good qualities. I just know myself and I don’t think I can put up with this too much longer. Any advice for the logic one.
You're the only one here who's been there, done that with him. If he says he won't change and he can't help it, believe him. Decide if you can put up with it.
Personally, I think you're better off without him distracting you from finding someone better.
And thanks for the Clash earworm!
Mon 19 Nov, 2018 10:26 pm
Dump him. He will not get better and this is a co-dependent relationship that you are in. Why would you get back with him after being apart for so long? When you were apart, I bet that was the most peace that you have had. His good qualities are not enough to outweigh this toxic relationship. Take it from me: it won't get better