Re: re
diana78 wrote:i'm just hurting...it hurts when you like someone and they dont like you back no matter what the reasons might be. I just keep thinking about him, i wish i could see him. I guess in the back of my mind i keep hoping maybe he really does want to be with me too....
I know it hurts and only time will help that. Diana, you remember how much it hurt when he told you he wasn't capable of having feelings for anyone. You remember how much it hurt when he broke off his plans to see you and went to FL instead or stayed in Vt with his family instead of seeing you.
You keep thinking about him and about how nice it would be if he could feel for you the way you feel for him, but he doesn't and he can't. I know that doesn't make sense to you, but sometimes we just have to take people at face value and the person he is isn't the one you want him to be.
He's told you outright he can't be your boyfriend. He keeps calling you because he's being selfish. He's lonely and he wants to talk to you. He knows what you're looking for and he can't be that for you, but he calls you anyway and hurts you some more. You need to dig down through the hurt and find some anger to hold on to. He's hurt you and hurt you and hurt you. Not because he wants to but because he isn't the right guy for you. You need to cut loose from him, Diana.
