Ive been trying to do what you suggested but then some...hiccups came up. They took our washing machine last week (its rented) and now today i discovered we have no water. I called my mom and she (at her new boyfriend's house when she's supposed to be at work) said that we have to pay it ourselves by 3pm. (Its past that now). She told me to ask my little sister to pay it. Of course she said no; that would be all her money and we have no food. She started painting nails for people because she needs money and she cant work for many hours because of school.
I told my mom that she said no. I also told her that i know she lied about being at work because i could hear a tv in the background and she sounded like she was asleep. She got mad and asked why did i care, and i told her the reasons im mad at her. Then she said i just get mad at everything she does. The rest of the coversation went like this:
Her: You're just going to be mad at whatever i do no matter what i do
Me: you dont even try to take responsibility for the stuff you do; the money, the lies, none of it! You just run away from it.
Me: what are you saying??
Her: what do you WANT me to say?
Me: You dont even BELIEVE that youre at fault here you're just saying what you think i want to hear so ill shut up.
Her: well im tired of trying to make everyone happy
Me: what??? When did--!
Her: im not gonna argue with you it just makes us mad. You're mad at me and you're just gonna have to stay mad at me. So you just live your life and ill live my life.
My sister is stubborn to stay at the house because she doesnt want to leave just yet but im imploring her to stay with her boyfriend's family until i can figure something out. Part of me blames myself. I ******* 22 i shouldn't be so broke, i shouldn't have went to school in the first place i shouldve just went and got a job right after highschool instead of relying on my mom until i finished college; im an idiot for thinking i could depend on her when i never could, and at the same time im an adult i shouldve saved more or something instead of this.
Im sorry im just really distraught. I mean 3 weeks with no water...im gonna have to buy jugs again or something....and its not like it effects my mom shes moved all of her clothes and stuff to his house and she never sets foot in here aside from in the morning to take my sis to school. And she claims she's going to stop doing that soon too.