I hated that feeling that I'd lost part of myself because such a significant relationship ended.
Actually, I have to agree with you.
Romantic lerve certainly gets the synapses snapping - and wakes you up good and proper - and makes for fantastic sex - but it IS madness.
I don't know as my nerves could stand it again.
Exactly!
Something from when you were really small & helpless. Sheesh!
Now how romantic is THAT?!
I think love is a feeling you get with someone that's undenyable. It isn't mere infatuation but rather you grow with the person, until one day something sparks.
I broke up with my g/f months ago, but I wouldn't trade those times for anything. You grow with each relationship you are in and really it teaches you about yourself as a person. I've discovered so much by being with her, it's unimaginable. I look back now and see and the mistakes Ive made but also everything I've done right.
Don't get me wrong, it hurt like hell for a while. But I think it's best to see it as a period of growth. There's my 2 cents
i'm trying to get past a relationship that ended with a broken heart on my side. AFter five months I finally took a call from her and the wound felt fresh. I keep telling myself that it's normal, and that these feelings will pass with time. It's hard when your mind is trying to tell you one thing and your heart/feelings deside not to listen.
Tenoch wrote:i'm trying to get past a relationship that ended with a broken heart on my side. AFter five months I finally took a call from her and the wound felt fresh. I keep telling myself that it's normal, and that these feelings will pass with time. It's hard when your mind is trying to tell you one thing and your heart/feelings deside not to listen.
Aw, I'm sorry that's happened to you, Tenoch. I do understand about that heart/mind battle. Though it mightn't feel like it for a while, that DOES pass. It did for me & it will for you.
Good luck!
