How do I get a guy?

Hello I'm a bicurious or I think I might be all the way gay! I say this because all I can think about is men. I've been getting aroused by guys since I was little! I would get a hard on when a male friend spent the night at my house. I've never been with a man! I started dating girls thinking it was just a phase. Now the urges are back! I went to pick something up at Walmart and the guy who help me was gay! He was very good looking and I had to sit in some chairs they had because I got s hard on for him I even wet myself! I wanted to ask how do I seduce him or other guys! Do i ask if he's single or tell him I think he's cute! If he says no how can i seduce other guys! If I'm at guys house and find him attractive do I sit close to him or flirt! Should I wear skimpy clothing and sit next to him And slowly take take my shoes and socks off while wearing short and put my legs on the couch so maybe he'll think I'm sexy! If I sleep over and we share the couch or bet shoul I just sleep in my underwear and while he's sleeping slowly wrAp myself around him! Please help I'm new at this and and really horny for a guy to do me for the first time! I like getting it anally! I've never had the real thing but I stick buttblugs in my butt and I've never felt pleasure like that before! So I'm guessing it would be better with a real man! Please give me advice someone!