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For the women who do it, it can be for several reasons. One being for self-image and confidence. Another reason is to make money (i.e., your sister and probably 90% of the porn stars), and others do it for medical reasons (mastectomy, etc.). Some women have reductions for much the same reasons (other than a mastectomy, of course). I think it prudent of men to not say anything about it to their ladies if the ladies don't bring it up first. Some things are better left unsaid. If you bring it up first, she may feel that she is currently "inadequate" and then you'll have an entirely new set of problems on your hands, the least of which is spending some quality time bonding with the sleeper sofa.

If a woman wants it, she'll tell you. If she wants your opinion, don't start watering at the mouth and talking gibberish..... Just tell her that you'll support her decision and then just talk about why she wants to do it. If you're happy with her (who she is inside and not her "software"), then you had damn well better tell her that. Make sure she knows that no matter how she looks, you'll love her because to say otherwise would be shallow, insensitive, and uncaring...unless you really are that way (no you personally, but you know what I mean). Some guys can't get past good cleavage as far as their depth goes. If a girl doesn't have it, he doesn't want anything to do with her.

With that being said, some girls do it for vanity. Some girls love to tease guys with them. Some girls are ruthless. I'm sure there are probably a whole host of reasons for having it done but I'm of the opinion that if it comes up in conversation, I'd want it to start with her. But that's just me.

Good day and have a great weekend!

Mike

I've never quite understood why women will have their nipples cut off in order to have larger breasts....

I always wished breasts were more like a penis. When you got excited they would blow up, but it you wanted to exercise you could squeeze them into a little ball and strap them against your body so they don't bounce around and get in the way.

I remember my horror upon reading the "new, improved" method of breast implantation....through the bellybutton. Surfdude, maybe you should witness one of these operations before you make any further suggestions.

I don't suppose she's asked you to have your penis enlarged? Any thoughts on how you might feel if she did?

Please don't say things like that to your wife. If she wants to mutilate her body she'll do it on her own. She makes comments like that because she wants affirmation that you still find them desirable, find her desirable. Your response is basically saying you'd find her attractive if she got a boob job.

Boriskitten is right. How would you feel if she seriously asked you to lengthen your penis?

I'll second what photoman Mike said!

Welcome to A2K, photoman.

I'm thinking that....
I need to have a penis reduction. Ya, that's it. Maybe my friends will stop calling me Tripod then.

Interestingly enough, the woman I've actually spoken with about penis size could care less (for the most part) whether or not a guy is hung like a mule. For women, I think intimacy and emotion is much more important than 'raw' sex and that it's not necessarily the size of the ship that matters; it's the motion of the ocean. However, I could be wrong.

Thoughts from the ladies???

Good day!

Mike

Thanks for the welcome aboard, Boomerang!! Everyone here has made me feel welcome. I like that!

Good day!

Mike

that's the second time today, Green Witch!

Thanks J-B, it's nice to know someone actually reads this stuff.

As to penis size - it's not the wand it's the magician - and really big ones are just annoying.

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Sorry, but I've heard the opposite. I've even asked about this in threads on A2K, and once the women who are trying to be nice are weeded out, the inevitable truth comes out.

All women want an eight-inch penis with the girth of a tomato can.

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7 inches is fine if its nice and thick.

Hey, it's not fair for a woman to request a penile implant. They're just not safe and many times deform the penis. Apples and oranges, ladies.

Fake breasts, however, are great. I suggest all you women, when you have time away from the laundry and sandwich fetching, go get them asap.

Bananas and oranges, maybe...

Touche, Soz.

Mikey....the more posts you make, the more and more I find myself agreeing with you.

I think if my figures are correct and they may not be anymore and I also I don't think the statistical data has yet been released for 2004, but the top 2 elective cosmetic procedures being done are Botox followed by liposuction. I thing breast augmentations (augmentation mammoplasty) rated about #9 on the list.

As photoman mentioned, the reasons for having the procedure are as varied as the women themselves. And it IS a very personal decision and I hope not one entered into lightly.

The last outdoor concert I attended last summer though, both my son and I commented that we have never collectively seen so many bodacious, overly endowed young women, flaunting their oversized mams in our lives. My son is 25, quite handsome and was getting a good share of look-overs and smiles by many of these young tits-a-floppers. At one point he turned to me and said...."whatever happened to the real people, mom?" as he rolled his eyes and shook his head.

I strongly agree with Bella Dea and BorisKitten that this is no joking matter when your wife is looking for affirmation from you. True, sometimes we women do go about seeking that in rather convoluted round about ways and not always ask as directly as men do, but I have found in my own experience, whenever I say something about my own body not being "so perfect", I AM asking for affirmation and not agreement to my perceived flaws.

Surfdude...maybe you could go up to your wife and remind her of that conversation and when she says yes....give her a big hug and a kiss and tell her you love her just the way she is!

Just a thought.....

I have to agree that that is the answer most likely to get you a good enthusiastic hummer.

And maybe even more!

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

In several states they are beginning to think about taxing elective cosmetic surgery, botox, and the like. They have proposed earmarking the money for schools.

This way, the thinking goes, women will feel good about themselves by getting new boobs for the deserving school children.

I can just see it now....

Flat chested women will be scorned for their lack of civic duty and the PTA meetings will have to be held before the dinner shift at Hooters.