material girl wrote:Tenoch-why do you see it as a waste of an evening if nothing happens afterwards??
Thats hardly fair.Would you expect a person to sleep with everybody they flirted with?
Ive been 'mentally abused' by certain guys since I was in my teens about relationships and it clearly still effects me.
As soon as they saw me talking to a guy they would do their best to make me feel I wasnt allowed to talk to anyone that they hadnt given me permission to talk to.And if they knew a guy liked me they would make things uncomfortable or embarrassing for me(and him) whether I liked the guy or not.
One of my male colleagues that doesnt work in the area came down here for a couple of days over Christmas, we talked for a few minutes, when I spoke to other guy friends afterwards they all assumed I was cracking onto my colleague,simply because I was talking to him!!Crazy!!
Its almost like they dont want me speaking to people that arnt in my immediate social group.
As this has effected me I just wondered if I could get something fun out of the situation.
Im clearly saying I DONT want to lead a guy on, I just want to have a giggle.
BTW, a guy can only be lead on if he is already interested, whether the woman flirts alot or not.
It's a waste when a girl acts like she likes you, but really doesn't. When a single girl flirts with me I assume she feels attracted to me. And if she decides to spend the entire evening flirting, then i assume she also likes my personality. A phone number would be enough for it not to be a waste. I didn't mean to imply that we needed to sleep together.
Your guy friends act that way either because they want to protect you like a little sister, or they all want to knock boots with you.
