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how can i tell if he likes me

 
 
rcm12
 
Reply Sun 25 Mar, 2018 02:41 am
Hi so I'm a guy bi and I'm just starting to come out. Not a lot of people know just a few friends.I've recently gotten a huge crush on one of my coworkers. I really like him and its driving me nuts.we've talked a few times but i still can't figure out if he's into me. i don't even know if he's into guys, but i still want to take a chance. so i just need some advice on what the next step is.how can i tell if he likes me? what should i do? do you have any good flirting tips?
 
jespah
 
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Reply Sun 25 Mar, 2018 07:58 am
@rcm12,
I'm a cis het woman but I suspect things aren't too too different.

Normally, I would tell you to never, ever date someone at work. But I also know it can be a challenge in LGBTQ circles. So I'll give you a pass but the caveat is the same: dating at work is virtually never a good idea because if you break up (and most relationships do), then it can poison the working environment.

Be nice (without being a pest; it's a balance, you don't want to hang around all the time). Ask him to have lunch with you or go on break and get coffee. At least get a feel for being friends before anything else.

Again, I think dating is a bad idea at work. But making friends is wonderful. So hang around and be friends. And you'll start to get your answers in a far more organic fashion.
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