Is that normal to want my wife to pratice an open marriage?

First i need to tell you that i am freshly married with my wife, she is a bit older than me but i am the one that look older. i have a good job, a house and a nice car (it's getting old but i am attached to that car). in other word, i am well established in life.

my wife is now 30, she is chinese, i meet her on a dating website. i was in that website because i was a bit lonely and i have a taste for the asian. my wife is fluent in english and to be honest, i knew at the first glance that she was actually working at luring the men to stay in the website as it was a paying website. she was selling her time and romance, not the sexuality. there was no nudity in what she was doing. i soon asked her to contact me on Skype so i wouldn't have to pay the website to talk to her. i used a free trial of 20min to contact her and never pay anything after. she was nice and pretty to look upon. she was also secretly looking for a bf on the website and she admit me that there was almost no men under 50 in that website. so as my age was close to her age and i was well established already, i pick her attention. to be clear, she wasn't a gold digger looking for a suggar daddy. it's just she wouldn't even consider a man that cannot affort her to come in china to meet her or allow her to have a decent life once she move in another country. once i pass that requirement and talked to her frequently for over a year, i went to meet her in real and everything went well. she come to my country later to meet me and after a few travel to one side to another, we finally go married a few month ago.

the thing is after we got married, she returned to her country for a few month. as we built our relation with the distance always comming back, we aren't feeling less in love without the other one around. we do not even feel we are far aways. loyal to each other. but recently i started to have that fantasy that my wife, who didn't had much love experience before me, may want to try to be with another men out of curiosity. i mean, it would only be normal to experiment a bit the sex life as she didn't had more than 2-3 men in bed before me and none of them really had skill. me i like to make love, i do not do it much for myself i enjoy it much more when i satisfy my partner. and i am very concern about making my wife happy in bed. not that i do not perform well, quite to opposite. she is very happy of my performance there. my kissing skill are a bit of my weakness but the rest is really good according of her impression. but i would like to start to get her in bed with me and maybe someone else just to experiment it.

i asked her many time if she ever had desire for someone else than me, no matter who. she is very traditional on that matter and keep answering that i am the only one. but i told her that i may like to have a threesome with her. 2 men and her of course. at first she was a bit surprise and was expecting me to ask to have a threesome with 2 girl and me in return but that wasn't my plan even if i would indeed like it. what i was thinking is about her be more open about our sexlife and introducing a 3rd persone in our sexlife is a way for me to make her happy. if she is happy, i am happy. just imagining her with another man make me existed to be honest. it's a bit weird to feel like that as i can also be jealous to see her talking with another man. but i would really love it all the same. i told her that i would allow her to have 1-2 lover other than me as long she remain true to me. in other word i was telling her to not retrain herself and sleep with other man if she want. the only thing she need to do is to keep loving me as her husband.

after a few talk about it, she finally start to trust that i do not want anything in return and admit that she may want to try it step by step. like inviting a friend and maybe start to have intimate forplay while he is there and invite him to caress my wife or something like that. it's something i want to explore while we are fairly young. she is 30 and i am nearly 30. so we still have a good sexlife. it's a bit weird to want to do those kind of stuff like that but for me, this is only a proff of the trust and the love we have for each other. while she is allow to have other men, she told me that she couldn't accept me to be with other girls. it's not a very fair arrangement.

is that normal to want my wife to have lovers? should i be jealous of it or ask her to let me do the same?