@Real Music,
Real Music wrote:The OP first line in this thread reads:
"My fiancé and I have been together for a year"
You’ve removed that quote from context - in the same sentence she said that the dick pick happened early in their relationship.
What our OP left unsaid was 'how early', and what type of relationship they had at that stage. By asking, you would have found it was a casual relationship at that time.
Real Music wrote:I don't know why you would use the term "butting in" when we are all on an open forum.
You’ve also removed this quote from context. I wrote several parts after that, which answer this.