jpinMilwaukee wrote:Plus you can always hang out with us here on A2K.
Check out some of the other forums. There are a ton of great people here who are a ton of fun.
Aw, Jpin, that's so nice to mention me!
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What J_B and JP (hmm) said about Chicago -- I just moved away from there. It's a great place.
I moved there when I was 7 months pregnant, and can really identify with what you're saying. Very common. That's great about MeetUp! That's a good way to start.
That's too bad that your husband feels insecure -- as eoe says, the longer you're there, the less likely he'll worry about this stuff. Feel free to vent here if you feel like venting!
Kristie wrote:jpinMilwaukee wrote:Plus you can always hang out with us here on A2K.
Check out some of the other forums. There are a ton of great people here who are a ton of fun.
Aw, Jpin, that's so nice to mention me!
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No problem Kristie... I do what I can
Your husband is (unknwoingly) manipulating you with his reactions to your yearings for the pre married life. He is probably interpretting it as "you dont want to be married anymore" and it's just not the csae. I wonder if you can sit him down and explain. He needs to imagine moving down south to follow your career and really understand the reverse scenario....that hot humid muggy sun would drench his Hugo Boss suit while the rosters were crowing.
The foundation to marriage is trust and security, and you two may need to build that afer the fact. It sounds tough since your hubby has past reasons to feel this way. I think all your problem can be solved with trust & understanding (as cliche as that may sound).
Best wishes and even counseling could be considered since you're likely to build resentment over time, and something far worse could happen only for your hubby to say he wished he knew so he could've done something.
