Quote:What are some of the things guys would tell you?
They would tell me that I got married too soon, and did not let love come to me. They felt my husband did not deserve someone like me. They always tried to make it seem like we were going through tragic times and married life is somehow less exciting, and would try to console me and be there ... just "to talk" and "share my feelings". This emotional availability was nice, and I'm not sure what percentage was sincere, if any.
Quote:This may sound harsh at times but...
but you're absolutely right. I do not blame anyone but myself, and am not a victim by any means. I set myself up for failure, and I just wanted to share my experience and am just taken by some of the reasons people get divorced, and the perpetual theme of realizing things way after the fact.
Guys can be very manipulative when it comes to sex and they must be evolving or something (must be those Maxim magazines). I am much wiser now, and have learned a great deal about men, relationships, and the lot.