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Mon 15 Jan, 2018 01:23 pm
Am miserable in love with a girl who has a boyfriend. I know her family (father in particular) who helped me during one of my darkest period in my life, part of the reason I care for her that much because he father is no more living. She never tells me how she feels about me even when I press her, she gives me vague expressions but whenever I pulls back from her; like not talking to her or touching her she complaints to our mutual feiends.
I help her with money, with my friendship and in any way I can in any particular time. My mom and elder sister do not approve of my feelings for her and warns her to stay away from me. This has being going on for one year now, I want to know how best to fix this situation.
@SeyramAfi,
She has a boyfriend.
You are a family friend.
It is time for you to find a girlfriend who is interested in you.
Ignore the little games she is playing with her friends. To begin with, do not encourage them to speak to you about her. Change the topic immediately.
Do not give her money - that is highly inappropriate.
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You fix the situation by moving on with your life.
@SeyramAfi,
she is playing you for all your worth but has no interest in a relationship with you.
dump her and find a woman that loves you truly.
@bunnyhabit ,
He can't dump someone he's not in a relationship with.
She is in a relationship with someone else.
@ehBeth,
he obviously has a friend relationship with her if read message correctly.
@bunnyhabit ,
He wants to be her friend.
You have transferred your care and emotional ties of her father, who meant a lot to you, to this girl.
Do you feel an obligation to take care of her? ( Did you make a promise to her father ?)
This girl does not feel a romantic tie to you but still accepts your financial gifts. You must accept that this is your role to her.
Get into counseling to help you deal with the father's death so that you can mive on.
May I ask your age and hers?
@SeyramAfi,
She's not interested. Move on.
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