Oh, just saw "two jobs" -- still, though, do you have friends, your own time away from the family?
Yes, i have plenty of friends, 95% of them are Christian and yet my wife wont trust any of the kids with them. So i cant leave the kids with them becuase she wont allow it.. and i agree we do need a change, im trying, but is hard, and then this stuff goes all thru my head and stuff.. im just extremely confused about my feelings for her..
and Kristie, i have already done that.. LOL!
thatyoungdude wrote: im just extremely confused about my feelings for her..
You keep saying this...is it because you feel guilty that you may not love her anymore?
panzade wrote:She's gonna get hurt...there's no way around it.
Panz is right, but I sense you are hurting too. As you speak w/her about these things (as calmly and softly as possible) be honest and make a list & show her what You want from the relationship. Then, ASK her how she feels, then LISTEN. You may find you are both on the same path.
Doubts are normal in times of stress. I admire the fact that you are seeking a solution and not just running, that shows growth and real matuirty from a "street kid".
Again Panz is right:
. It'd be less unpleasant if you could patch things up and stay a family unit.
However, IF After all this you find you are married by yourself, you might want to see a lawyer about protecting your assets and making arrangements for a separation while you re-organize.
