Why are all the hot guys gay???? WHY??????

thank you for all your replies.

Hehe, if you think all gay guys are hot you should meet some of my friends. Great people but certainly not all hot.

Anyway, there are plenty of hot straight guys. At least that's what they tell me when I hit on them :S

I was watching stand-up on tv, and this comedian had a pretty funny joke. Started talking about how gay guys are all working out and getting jacked..."hey, look at that guy, he benches like 400lbs, he's SO GAY!" and "this is my son, he's a big boy, he's built like a gay guy!"

But it's not true. The joke or your thread.

Much like any other group there are various subcultures within the gay culture. One of which is obsessed with body-building. (nicknamed Muscle Marys).

For gay people as a whole, the group is far too large for much commonality. There are short, tall, fat, thin, good looking, ugly etc.

Accidentally hit submit before I finished writing. I was about to say women think that gay guys are all good looking because women only ever hit on the good-looking ones and never hit on ugly guys and thus find out their sexuality.

No, women that think all hot single guys are gay are warpigs themselves, because nobody hits on them.

<grin>

Yeah, that's a possibility too.

What are you saying Odd Socks, that you think Cary Grant, Randolf Scott, Earl Flynn, Richard Chamberlain, Rock Hudson, George Clooney, Brad Pitt, Ben Affleck, Matt Damon and Montgomery Clift are or were hot?
These names are widely rumored to be gay--I was told this by people who worked in the studios and actors in "the business."
There are, of course, all those British actors who appear gay, but it's only because they're "so british."

Hey JL, I've worked in studios before and rumours fly around in there like there's no tommorow. I wouldn't read too much in to them. A friend of mine claimed to have slept with one of those celebrity once but I don't think I can take that one too seriously either.

Let me guess. Was it Cary Grant?

Lol, no, they were ambitious. Apparently it was Matt Damon, like I said, I wouldn't give it too much credence.

Hmmmmmmmm........all I can say is that one of the hottest guys I know is far from being gay. :wink: And I am guessing that in his area (Palm Beach, Fla.) ...there is a decent size gay community.

On the flip side.......I do know some gay men and they make GREAT friends!!! And I love em' to pieces. My life is enriched by having them in it. They give great advice and are not in competition all the time.

Hey, I'm hot and I'm not gay.....ROFL. But I am married....sorta, kinda.

By the way, what is "mad sex"? I know it means great sex but I just have never had sex like that and I've been married 20 years. Why is it that all the women I'm NOT married to will do so much more than my wife ever did or ever will? UGH. (pulls hair out in clumps)

Good day!

Mike

Not knowing your wife that's a hard question to answer, however perhaps these unmarried women are happy to do crazy things in bed because they know they don't have to live with the person for the next fifty years...

There are many things which might be fun to try in bed that I don't do with my partner because I respect and love him too much to indulge in. If it were just random sex with a complete stranger though I may well do any number of those things.

Well............
I guess I don't see where respect and love would hinder you from doing the most intimate things with the one you love. Of course, that depends on what you're talking about. I mean I would do everything with my wife that I would do with another woman because I have my own limits as well and I'd have no problem doing any of them with my wife IF she would. For me, where love and respect come into the relationship, I would not do anything my wife wouldn't but I certainly would not say that I wouldn't do something she would like to do because I love and respect her too much to do it. I draw the line at pain and bondage. I guess it boils down to communication both before and after marriage. It's good to discuss sexual things prior to marriage so that there isn't a huge compatibilty problem after the "I DOs".

My next question would be what would be the "number of things" you'd do with a stranger that you wouldn't do with your husband? You don't have to go into detail (it's more of a rhetorical question) but I'm just wondering why you would expend the extra energy to do things with a stranger that you wouldn't do with the one you love. I would tend to think, then, that your husband is on the losing end of that deal and the stranger will reap the rewards of your obvious willingness to do a number of other things.

I don't say that in a belittling way or in any disrespectful tone....I'm just wondering why, in all seriousness, why you'd rob your husband of something perhaps he'd really enjoy doing with you but you would reserve for a chance sexual encounter with a stranger. (NOT that you would do it with a stranger....just hypothetical).

Being that my wife has not made love to me in eight years, I'm ready for that chance encounter just about every day and at any time the opportunity would present itself.

Thank you for your thoughts. It makes me ponder a good many things. Have a most excellent week!!

Mikey

Re: Well............
I've taken your quotes out of order to make my reply make more sense... hope you don't take it amiss.



Not taken that way at all don't worry.



Put as simply as possible, various varieties of BDSM that seem like fun but not something I can at all imagine doing to someone I love. Chances are that I'm far too sappy a humanist to do them to anyone at all, but I find it easier to consider with a stranger than with my boyfriend.



Not that it's particularly relevant but he's not my husband, partly because A) that would be illegal since we're both male. B) At 21 I consider myself a bit too young to consider marriage and he's slightly younger than me anyway so even if I were ready I don't know that he would be. C) We've only dated for around 6 months now.



Agreed. Ben (my boyfriend) and I, have discussed the issue. We both agree that as much fun as BDSM might look, we can't imagine doing it with each other. However we also agreed on an open relationship (not for that reason) so if we wanted to we would be able to do it with other partners.



Ouch. That can be good or bad. I had a relationship where we couldn't have sex at all, (a medical issue that I'm not going to detail), and I found that it lead to a very deep connection as we were forced to funnel all our energy into the romantic side of things.

On the other hand, sex is fun, it's certainly something I'd rather not miss out on.



On the contrary, thankyou for listening and appreciating them. A rare event that makes sharing them all the more worthwhile.