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Mon 17 Jan, 2005 07:31 pm
WHY?!?!?!?!?!?!
And, yes, i've considered that they are only pretending to be gay to fob me off. It doesn't work because it even works for guys who aren't likely to ever meet me.
Well..... I think it's single guys, who want to keep the single lifestyle who are hot. More gay men than straight may be into that role....?
And, look around at couples you see walking down the street. I see lots and lots of not-so-hot guys who are dating at l;east some what hot gals. Women are, it seems, generally more interested in personality.
Re: Why are all the hot guys gay???? WHY??????
Odd Socks wrote:WHY?!?!?!?!?!?!
And, yes, i've considered that they are only pretending to be gay to fob me off. It doesn't work because it even works for guys who aren't likely to ever meet me.
Thats just not true! Im not gay........
Murphy's Law
You should have learned this in high school.
The Murphy's Love Laws---my contribution to your education.
Murphy's love laws
All the good ones are taken.
All the gorgeous ones are gay.
If the person isn't taken, there's a reason.
The nicer someone is, the farther away (s)he is
from you.
(There are about twenty more but they're all lame.)
I think the man's answer "I'm gay", even if they are not, is the equivalent to the female response "It's not you, it's me."
Hey, I'll share a personal story from my uni days. I was in first year, and a beautiful girl in fourth year showed an interest. We agreed to meet for coffee, and then it turned into lunch, a movie, and dinner. Before we parted she asked me if I was gay. I said no, why? She said one of our mutual friends who was gay said I was gay as well. I was livid. Can you imagine ruining a great date by proxy? I assured her, no, I was straight. On our next date we had dinner and mad sex, and dated for several months. A good run, really, for people with different goals.
Anyway, especially for Lash, used in the wrong way, not communicated properly, the message is still the same: I'm not interested. It's not horrible, just observations from both male and female friends I know. :wink: Sometimes honesty is indeed the best policy.
I guess it does cut down on the long, agonizing explaining.
But, <purses lips not unlike the Church Lady>
Who you calling gay, Socks?
I have exactly the opposite problem
Cav, it's okay to admit. Some of my best friends at uni were gay. Much more fun to go to clubs with since you know you can get as drunk as you want and they
1) won't take advantage
2) will listen to you cry about being sorry for puking on their car and
3) won't avoid ever seeing you again because you puked on their car.
I happen to know that no straight guy would have been that understanding.
I think the prince's comment is telling.
It's basically the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.
sozobe wrote:I think the prince's comment is telling.
It's basically the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.
On my side there is no grass !! Atleast the kind I can graze
Just ask 'em to stop shaving, Prince
I loved the reply Kevin Spacey gave to a question asked about his sexual preferences.
Is said something along the lines of:
"No...I'm not gay. I know people have speculated that I am...but I am not. But I don't mind the speculation. There are lots of beautiful women who want to "cure" me...and I let 'em have a shot at it!"
I have a gay friend who looks like Tyson Beckford. Women are always hitting on him and are disappointed when they find out he's not interested. On the other hand, some of HIS (gay) acquaintances hit on me..
the prince wrote:I have exactly the opposite problem
One of my best friends (who happens to be gay) says the same thing. He says, "come to a gay bar some time...I'll show you...they aren't all "tv gays".
cavfancier wrote:I think the man's answer "I'm gay", even if they are not, is the equivalent to the female response "It's not you, it's me."
I've considered this, as i wrote, but it doesn't account for it also working for celebrities.