@smackie9,
That's what I'm thinking smackie.
Sam 560, only a few weeks ago you were despairing of him getting out there and even asking a girl out.
Now he has a girlfriend, albeit for just a short time.
Yes, he has challenges, but let him make his own decisions.
I don't think I'd be spending Christmas with the family of someone I've only dated a few weeks.
It's not for me to decide, but you may want to take a look if you've crossed the line between guiding and supporting him in making his own decisions, and pushing him to do what you personally think is best.