Sun 3 Dec, 2017 03:03 pm
My question to everyone is how can I spice up my love life with my partner? We've been dating for 3 years now and have barely had sex the past year. Now we've had a lot of issues this past year, lies, cheating, miscommunications. We fight frequently, and its always bad. I believe the reason for the tension is boring sex or therefore lack of. There are also some deeper issues as to why I believe we dont have sex as often which is we were recently separated (because I cheated) and she starting seeing a man right after. What really got to me is that she didn't know this man and had unprotected sex with him for months. For the longest time I couldn't see past that when we were about to have sex and now that I have I'm wondering is there something wrong with her? Or am I really over it? Help please !! I've approached her with this conversation many times, all she says is that the sex is boring now. I dont understand how when I'm doing the same thing as in the beginning so now I feel as if its jus because she wants a man.. Or wat a man possesses?
I must say the question is rather more prosaic than the thread title might suggest.
Don't know a whole lot about lesbians but if sex is the only reason for the relationship then maybe it's best to just let it go. Find another with whom you can connect on a deeper level and who you don't want to cheat on. Good luck.
We have an amazing connection, a beautiful bond. That is why we choose to stay together, its just the sex is almost non existent and when we do I feel like she isn't interested
You say you have a great "bond" - yet you have frequent fights, cheat on each other, and there's non-existence sex, (with her being very distracted or disinterested) plus - she's with other people?
This love affair is over.
Now you are just friends. Separate and see if she misses you.