what now...

I'm sure you remember i'm the one seeing the guy in AA. Well I hung out with him this past weekend. I got there saturday afternoon and we hung out until I left at about 8pm sunday. We went out to eat, watched movies, etc. I will say that we had sex and it was really good. Anyways, when i left sunday he was like, i'll come down to where you are tuesday night and we can go to a nice dinner/movie etc. So he came down last night and we went out to eat, then when to the movies. He was away in another country over the holidays and he called me everyday. He said that he obviously interested me since he had done that and he told me many times that he missed me and couldnt wait to see me.

Last night i just felt like things were weird, i got a strange vibe of what is going on i guess. He attends AA in another part of the state which is about 3 hrs away. I met him dec 3rd and conveniently he was home a lot over the holidays. So last night he said, so i'm gonna be gone for a while, i wont be back here for about another 3-4 weeks. I didnt say much. In the past he has asked me if i wanted to go visit him but he didnt bring that up this time. Later he says, so are you going to be mad if i dont call you like every single day. I said no. Later we really talked about things and now i jsut dont know if we want the same thing. I said i wasnt sure what was going on with us and he said, well we both enjoy each other's company and hanging out. I asked if we were dating and he said, yeah i think we have been. I even asked if he thought of me as his girlfriend and he said he did. I said so if someone asked you if you had a girlfriend you'd say yes? He said he'd most likely say something along the lines of well yeah i've been seeing this girl for about a month. He said he wants to keep things light and see where things unfold. I asked if he cares about me he said yes, i asked if he has feelings for me and he said he doesnt want to have these emotional intense feelings right now. He even was like, what do you want for me to propose marriage to you and just stop doing the program because we've met?

I know i'm going to get hurt, he said he doesnt want to hurt me. I told him that i've been asked out by other guys and said no because of him. he told me that he's not seeing anyone else, but would understand if i wanted to go out with other people. I said, fine, maybe i will. He didnt say anything.
This morning he was saying how his mom is coming to visit. As i said a few weeks back he asked if i wanted to come out. I jokingly said, oh you didnt invite me out. He was like, oh so that's what you were waiting for, i thought you just wanted me to come here. Then he's like, you can come out and visit. I said, well i wasnt invited. He just laughed and said, i dont want to argue about this again so we let it drop. When i dropped him off this morning he said he'd miss me and he'd call me tonight. I dont know what to do....