@chai2,
chai2 wrote:
Isn't tinder just about hooking up for sex?
From single people that I know that is what they tell me tinder is for most to hook up for sex.
But what did you expect, seriously? You never actually even met the guy before just via an app - and the first time you meet him you have sex with him - I mean it does sound as if that is what you both wanted - not a relationship. If you wanted a relationship then you would have gotten to know him at least a bit before having sex.
So I don't know why you would be surprised to find he found someone else to sex with the first time he met them after tinder.
And what should you do? Learn from this experience -