Dancing close with a mate is NOT ON.
You really need to break it off with your current gf. You're not really with her, and you're being very unfair to her.
theres nothing going on between me and my ex, do you think i've still got feelings for her?
why does she think of me as a brother?
dont understand where that came from
You're young, dumb, and inexperienced.
When a girl tells you "you're like my brother," don't even bother talking to her, unless you REALLY just want to be friends.
If you don't know how to take that, you're not gonna "get it" much in life at all.
i dont really want to be friends, we are friends. It just came out as a funny thing to say from my point of view.
every-where i looked i saw nice women in mini skirts and she new i was getting a bit red and 'aroused' so she jokingly lifted up my shirt to see if i had an erection. twice. is she still playing mind games wiv me or what?
Where was your girlfriend?
Do your male mates lift your shirt to check on your state of arousal?
she wasn't around or i'd of been with her.
any of my male mates did that i'd be a bit unsettled(!)
dont think she meant anything by it.
If you really, seriously, want to be with your new girlfriend, don't do anything with the ex that you wouldn't do with a male mate. And don't let her do anything you wouldn't let a male mate do. Nothing.
So - no little dolphin gifts, no dancing close, no letting her lift your shirt. Her behaviour is entirely inappropriate. She has played, and is playing, you for an idiot.
Have you told your girlfriend about the dolphin, the dancing, the crying, the shirt-lifting? What did she think about it? If you haven't told her, why haven't you? Are you afraid she'll realize you're not over the ex?
honestly.. perhaps i'm not, but dont want to be hurt again.
Why do you think she's playing me fro an idiot?
not making excuses but we were quite drunk when we were in the night-club.
The shirt lifting thing is no big deal. I wouldn't even consider that flirting. If she grabbed your package, that's another thing.
She told you she thinks of you as a brother!!!!
Once you're in the "lets be friends" zone, there's no way out. Move on and stop thinking about it. Believe me.
i thought she meant that but why she'd think she could have me if she handed herself to me on a plate and to say that was a bit mistifying. There's a line there that we both know it would be unwise to cross.
A couple of years ago, I bought my ex a gift. It was supposed to be a present from the kids. I saw a tie, gray with little squares. Each square had a little picture of the grouch (from sesame street). I fell about the store laughing when I found it.
Two days ago...at my sons hockey game, the ex came waltzing in wearing the monstrosity. he he
I couldn't believe he was wearing it.
Generally though, I would never buy a gift for an ex. Too complicated.
Ceili wrote:A couple of years ago, I bought my ex a gift. It was supposed to be a present from the kids. I saw a tie, gray with little squares. Each square had a little picture of the grouch (from sesame street). I fell about the store laughing when I found it.
Two days ago...at my sons hockey game, the ex came waltzing in wearing the monstrosity. he he
I couldn't believe he was wearing it.
I have a tie with little dinosaurs all over it. It's kinda silly but it was Christmas gift from my son when he was 6 or 7 and really into dinosaurs. He's a university student now, but I still wear it on occasion.
