I did n`t engage where you were at, and it was n`t meant thought to have, merely contributed a state of play adage. One also requires to know when game over. I do n`t know whether it is game over yet, and I only read about half of the introduction, but you wont gain this nature of information from a counsellor, they are paid to seemingly try and fix the unfixable, they are running a business. When it comes to counsellors though, for God`s sake do n`t assume that merely because you are having to pay them a lot that they are a lot of good. Some of the worst counsellors are the best qualified, so be aware on this level too. So how can one know to whom to turn? You know through deployment of your best untampered with instinct, and never as consequence to anything which you have been deliberately programmed by the social system to believe reality. Such thinking as this serves only to make the rich grow still
richer. You must discern innately. Why do people study counselling? Often times because they have limited natural ability, because it is something which they`d like to be good at for this reason. You can become a good counsellor through studying, but you`ll never become a great one, it must be in you.