candidone1 wrote: ... My experience has tought me that Americans love America but wrongly think that the rest of the world reciprocates that love ...
And there is the fatal flaw in your argument.
Now, I'll not deny the widely held perception of American arrogance has some foundation. That is unfortunate, even regretable, but undeniable. I submit, however, that much of the impetus behind Anti-American sentiment stems from jealousy and envy, and from a sense of impotent futility. It is perfectly understandable there would be suspicion and enmity directed toward a nation clearly and demonstrably capable of consistently and uncounterably serving its own sovereign interest regardless of foreign opinion or action. That is something unchanged in over 2 centuries, and something unlikely to change in the foreseeable future.
"Most Americans" do not believe "The World loves America", but much of the world resents America because Americans love America before and beyond any other polity. "Most Americans" have little regard for "What The World Thinks of America"; world opinion simply isn't a concept with much local currency in America.
In sports, a dominant team or athlete typically is reviled by fans of teams or athletes consistently unable to best the champion. That does nothing to lessen the dominance of the champion, but rather, in its futile discontent, serves merely as acknowledgement of that champion's superiority on the field of play. In sports, a dominance rarely extends unbroken for more than a few seasons. In the global arena, America ain't been beat yet, and while since the end of the 18th Century that has pissed some folks off bigtime, that is the way it is and promises to remain.
No matter what "The World" "thinks". And while that may sound arrogant, it is neither more nor less than fact. Arrogance is particularly perceived in the instance of persistently demonstrated accomplishment.
"The World" likely is quite well justified in its perception of American arrogance. And to "The World", "America" says not "Get over it", for that would be un-American, but rather says "You ought to be used to it by now".