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boyfriend sending nudes of myself, threesome etc.

 
 
Reply Sat 3 Jun, 2017 03:19 am
I feel as though my boyfriend takes me for granted. I know this isn't how a boyfriend to be but i'm stuck when it comes to relationships. There's so many things that make me wonder about him but there's just too many to say.
He's never once taken a photo of me just to admire unless it's a nude photo and he's sent it to his friends? over 20 times i'd say (on snapchat and no one has screenshotted it)
We've had a threesome before which i agreed to (with another girl) but i still don't think he should be accepting it either way. when i asked him ahbout at least a foursome with a girl and a boy he wouldn't allow it as he doesn't want me getting with another guy. his standards are very different he will only hang out with me when it suits him. He's embarrassed if the boys know we're together (he is very friend orientated and doesn't want the boys thinking i'm his first option not because he's embarrassed to be with me) He hates my vegan lifestyle and will bag me and make me feel so little about it. Here's more of a summary
he has major double standards, he's unapprecive of what i do for him, very selfish only pays for one meal once a month and that's all he ever buys me. doesn't invite me to anything (i'm also friends i th his friends), doesn't care what i like or what i have to say (infact he tells me to stop right there when he's not bothered caring), insensitive etc.
i'm just so worried about breaking up with him i've known him since year 8 and i've always wanted to be with him and always had high hopes (i am 18) i know he likes me a lot and doesn't want to lose me and it's just his personality but i know it's so wrong to be with someone like that.
I'm so worried how things will turn out without him. i've tried to break up with him before but he convinces me not to and i believe that i'm being silly by doing it. he's really not a bad person he just doesn't know how to handle a relwtionsho
 
centrox
 
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Reply Sat 3 Jun, 2017 03:39 am
@lucymaree290,
You know you have to finish with him. You must. You will. Since year 8 means nothing. Do it.
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jespah
 
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Reply Sat 3 Jun, 2017 10:09 am
@lucymaree290,
Don't be so sure his pals haven't screenshot your nude pics. Don't be so sure he's so friend-oriented or any such nonsense, either.

Sounds like you're confusing your hopes for the relationship with the reality. You don't need to be in a relationship with him because you've known him that long. You've known everyone else from Year 8 for that long, too, and you're not feeling the need to get into relationships with them, now, are you?

He sounds selfish and insensitive at best. Why stay?
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Sat 3 Jun, 2017 10:30 pm
Please list at least ONE redeeming quality this guy has because I'm just not getting it why you stay with such a selfish jerk.
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CoastalRat
 
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Reply Mon 5 Jun, 2017 05:17 am
@lucymaree290,
Why would you settle for someone who treats you like crap? There is someone out there who will treat you as you deserve to be treated. Dump this guy and go out and find someone better.
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Kaitholik
 
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Reply Thu 8 Jun, 2017 07:16 am
@lucymaree290,
Hi Lucymaree,

What are some of your hobbies?

What do you like to do?

When my relationships, be they work, romantic, friends aren't seeming so great, I take to some personal interests (reading, writing, good movies, etc.) or try to develop some new ones. It helps me reflect and gives me a little perspective.

I don't eat meat that often. I'm far from vegan, but I definitely respect your commitment, though.

I'm actually working on a tofu stir fry recipe right now. It's slowly coming along...

Stay well Smile
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