dagmaraka wrote: thomas, i would not go to a boxing ring. period. are you saying i and other non-smokers (the fact that i am a social smoker is beyond the point here) should stay away from bars?
I am saying that you should make up your mind whether your pleasure from being in the bar exceeds your displeasure from the smoke, or from persuading your friends to frequent a non-smoking establishment with you. If it does, put up with the smoke. If it doesn't, put up with the loneliness outside the bar. Life is full of tradeoffs, and you cannot expect to have it your way in every regard. In other words, my short answer to your question is "yes". Yes, you should go somewhere else instead if you really, truly, mind the smoke as much as you say you do. But I suspect that you don't.
Dagmaraka wrote:now please explain to me why should non-smokers be subjected to behavior that harms them?
Because when you choose an interaction with known terms, you don't have a legitimate complaint about the parts of the terms you don't like. As a parallel, consider the case where I go to the store to buy a diet coke. The transaction benefits me on the one hand -- I get the coke -- and harms me on the other -- I have to part with $1.50, or whatever the price is. It would be very odd if, having received the coke, I claim that the store taking my money has a negative effect on me, so they're robbing me, which they shouldn't be allowed to do. It seems to me that your argument about bars is analogous to my hypothetical diet coke case. It also seems to me that this very distinct from the case of the unwanted kisser, who is
violating the known rules of interaction
without your consent.
Dagmaraka wrote:but if all bars are smoking, it isn't fair towards non-smokers.
To the extent that smokers really mind that, bar owners can make easy money by declaring their bars smoke free and raising their prices to reflect the benefit added for the non-smokers. To the extent this is happening, prohibitions are unnecessary. To the extent that it doesn't, this is strong empirical evidence that people don't mind smoke-filled bars as much as you think they do. Either way, I don't see how getting the government involved increases the general good. If you see your position as merely increasing your own pleasure at the expense of the smokers around you, I agree. But if you think there's more to it than that, I don't.