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Thu 20 Apr, 2017 07:03 am
I and my boyfriend are together for 4 years, but I cannot become friends with his friends.
And it was never a problem for me - with my ex's friends I had a great relationship.
But this time they have an attitude that guys are a friend, and their girlfriends arethere to entertain themselves.
How do I change this attitude&
@AmberM91,
You cannot change your boyfriend's friends attitude. You are not important enough to them to make them want to change.
But if your BF has this same attitude toward you when you are out with his friends, then you and the BF may need to talk if you find this undesirable.
@AmberM91,
Coastal is right, you can't change anybody and trying is really off-putting to those involved.
Is there any particular reason you need to be friends with your boyfriend's friends? It doesn't sound like you all would mesh well.