Quote:I agree, Crazy-Girl. I like being asked. I don't interpret it as a lack of experience on the guy's part, but rather proof that he's interested in pleasing me. Of course, there are different ways to find out what pleases another person, and experimenting is part of the fun! (I agree with squinney about moving & guiding...nonverbal instructions often work best.)
On the contrary, I don't like being asked (read the first page). I'd rather have him do whatever he feels it's right and just guide him if anything isn't "right". And yes, experimenting is part of the fun. Telling him do this and that makes the whole thing too "planned". I like surprises :wink: .
cavfancier, it's our job to make you feel confused
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