Thank you. I appreciate the realism in your response.
Not just realism, but gaging if you are getting a sufficient level of contentment/happiness in your life.
I'm not talking about weekend trip to Paris, he scatters rose petals on the floor for me stuff. Anyway, that trip has to get paid for, and those rose petals ain't gonna sweep themselves up.
Nor am I talking about a lifetime of drudgery or unremitting distaste for someone.
You had a fling, you liked the newness, the excitement. That quickly goes away. Whatever you decide to do, leave that alone, it's the past. No sense hurting someone by some need to assuage your guilt. That goes against the seemingly popular notion that you need to let someone/everyone know every single thing. This is a lesson to keep to yourself. Not with guilt or feelings that you were a bad person, but with the knowledge that these things happen.
BTW, don't worry about putting in a profile if you don't want. The person who wrote that is obsessed with that for some reason.